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November 10th, 2012

Beautifully arranged, we chose 10.11.12 to finally get married, exactly nine months after our engagement in February.  The plans were made with the consent of both families of course.  Actually, we laid out our future life plan draft long beforehand, even at the beginning phase of our friendship as jokes which in the end, most of them were made true by Him the Almighty :')  I'll save our love story for another entry insyaAllah.  Our akad nikah ceremony went smooth and I was officially Yusry's wife on that day with two lafaz.  I'd dare say our reception was very simple.  However, I must seek forgiveness from some of my friends who came on that day and didn't receive quite a courteous hospitality.  Thanks tho to everyone who came  :)

I'm blessed  :)

The akad nikah and reception of my side were held on the same day at my parents' lovely cozy home in Topaz, Shah Alam.  The reception theme was Pinkie Peach, I think?  Haha. 

Tangga rumah jeww.

And oh, we also had our outdoor photo shoot session done at a small park located close to the court.  Our official photographer was Hariz Yusuf.  I don't think he updates his blog anymore so most of his masterpieces can be viewed here.  More photos can be viewed on my Facebook page, if you can find it ;)

We're not as romantic.  Strictly for photo shoot only :p

November 17th, 2012

Early in the morning, my husband & I were all set & ready to go for our post-wedding photo shoot at Setia City Mall's park as arranged with our photographer.  We were lucky enough to finish the shooting early since at the tip ending of it, the rain started to fall.  Aggressive by seconds!  So we continued some of the shoots inside the mall instead.

Uuu so both of us are so fair, pfft :p

During the rain.

Back home some time in the afternoon, I had to start packing for a few days stay at my in-law's house in Meru since we'll be having another two receptions there later that night and the day after.  Boy I was really nervous.  Regardless of that, I managed to went through things and we were also celebrated lively.  Had to sing hubby a birthday song that night since it was his birthday -___-"  Malu gila wa cakap sama lu amendeee tiba-tiba nyanyi kat public.  My lovely boy turned 28 that day!  No official photos were taken on the 18th, lagipun simple simple sangat majlisnya just to celebrate neighbors, friends, and relatives in a simple ceremony.  I wasn't even wearing proper wedding attire, veil pun malas pakai.  Hehe.

So fugly  T_T  Happy birthday husband!

~ ~  Ouuukay, those were all about my special days I think.  See ya next time!  ~ ~

So far so good .

Assalamualaikum w.b.t. to each and everyone of you who's nice and kind enough to drop by this humble, stranded blog of mine.

I humbly seek apologies from any of my readers (if there's any) for hibernating for so long.  I would say I'm doing Subhanallah and Alhamdulillah perfectly fine all this while despite being tested with several unfortunate events in which I sincerely believe were His blessings upon me to cleanse my sins and wrongdoings (kafarah dosa).

Long story short, here is the chronology of some of my life important events just for simple update :)


February 10th, 2012

I got engaged to the answer of my prayers, Yusry bin Samsuri.  He was 28 and I was only 21, I would say seven years apart is not that much of a gap for us.  It's either I'm too matured for my age, or he's rather childish :p  No lively ceremony whatsoever.  It was simple.  It was short.  Still meaningful.  Only eight (if I'm not mistaken) of his family members came, he was NOT one of them.  Yes, we're old school liddat~~  We didn't make the engagement known to the whole world except for families and close friends. 

More like a discussion  ^.^

July 15th, 2012

This was the date that marked one of the most significant change in my life.  This was the date of my last final examination paper as a Bachelors Degree student in UiTM Terengganu, Dungun.  The memory was as fresh as if it occurred only yesterday.  How I excitedly packed after my three hours Management of Change paper which ended at 12 p.m. to rush driving back home in Shah Alam, while my parents and three of my younger siblings await since the night before.  They came to help me pack as well as to ensure that I will not be driving alone for the almost 5 hours journey.  The feeling was unclear and somewhat mixed between excitedness, happy, anxiety, scared, troubled, etc. etc. toward what awaited me in less than four months after that. 

Final research.

July 28th & 29th, 2012

Attended 'Kursus Kahwin' at Jabatan Agama Islam Selangor (JAIS) with my fiance, who's my husband today of course  :)  It was kind of a bore, somewhat exhausting; putting us in sleepy mode during some of the talks for it was Ramadhan (excuses :p) and also due to the failure of one or two of the speakers to gain our attentions.  Nevertheless, we gained many valuable information.  We were also given little treats for our Iftar, how nice.

Goodie bag with some useful books and pamphlets we received.

August 3rd, 2012

On that blissful Friday, UiTM degree students finally got back their final examination results.  I posted mine few posts back and honestly, I gratefully admit that I couldn't and shouldn't ask for more.  I passed with flying colors; all of which would not became a reality without the support from my parents, family, fiance, lecturers, friends, etc. etc.

Some information must be kept confidential, no?  :p

~ ~ Can't recall everything that has occurred last year.  But I don't think I missed anything crucial.  Oh well, will proceed.  In the next entry, hehe.  ~ ~

Pegangan.

(THIS IS A RE-POST FROM YEAR 2010, mind you)


I have a principle.
To never cheat in a quiz, test or examination.

It's a lie if I say that I never cheat.
It was quite like a common thing to do when the examination's in during my high school days.
Even the smartest kid in the class cheated, so why not me?


Nevertheless,
I didn't realize when did I start holding on to this principle.
Maybe as soon after I entered university?

Well, campus life is a whole lot different from the school days.
The courses got tougher, but still, I don't want to cheat.



In my context, cheating includes passing notes, asking a friend beside you, copying from a note, write down the answers beforehand on the table, text a friend during the quiz / test / exam, hide notes in the toilet and etc.

Others?  Well you name it.  I'm sure most of you are well-aware of it right?

What disturbs me the most is the fact that even top scorers tend to cheat and copy from their friends.
So what's the value of his / her 'top scorer' title?

Again, it's a lie if I tell that I never get any spot questions for the quiz / test / exam.
Yes I got it once in awhile.  But I still put my whole effort to concentrate on them before the exam, not by copying the entire details from the handouts or text book!


Honestly, I'm always stress before, during and even after the quiz / test / exam.
But I never use that as an excuse for me to cheat.
I held on to my parents' advice which sounds something like this,

"It's normal if you can't answer sometimes.  You can't expect to score everytime"

Pardon me dear friends as I know most of you did it.
I'm not a saint nor an angel.
I'm just here to stand my point.

Where's the value of your high marks if you know that you got that based on fraud and cheating?
Maybe some of you doesn't even care, right?
Well yeah what matters the most is you pass isn't it?

Heh, pity pity.  You may see it as a tiny weeny matter but believe me, Allah sees everything.
Those matters we tend to overlook are usually what actually contributes to our sin.

Doesn't this affect you in any way?

 

Well if it doesn't have any effects on you, you don't have a heart then.

Make a change.
Your life, your choice.
Why continue living in a life full of lies?



Now, don't make me start on plagiarism.
Oh and all the best for your finals UiTM students!  :)  No cheating this time.



Ps.  Got into an accident recently.  I accidentally bumped into a motorcycle.  Myvi's front bumper is severely damaged!

Gila .

 
Gila apa last published post September 11th?!  Bahaya tu, propa Yahudi tuuuu. 

Puii.

Banyak sangat dah jadi dalam 4 bulan ni. 

Ada masa cerita.

Puii lagi.