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November 10th, 2012

Beautifully arranged, we chose 10.11.12 to finally get married, exactly nine months after our engagement in February.  The plans were made with the consent of both families of course.  Actually, we laid out our future life plan draft long beforehand, even at the beginning phase of our friendship as jokes which in the end, most of them were made true by Him the Almighty :')  I'll save our love story for another entry insyaAllah.  Our akad nikah ceremony went smooth and I was officially Yusry's wife on that day with two lafaz.  I'd dare say our reception was very simple.  However, I must seek forgiveness from some of my friends who came on that day and didn't receive quite a courteous hospitality.  Thanks tho to everyone who came  :)

I'm blessed  :)

The akad nikah and reception of my side were held on the same day at my parents' lovely cozy home in Topaz, Shah Alam.  The reception theme was Pinkie Peach, I think?  Haha. 

Tangga rumah jeww.

And oh, we also had our outdoor photo shoot session done at a small park located close to the court.  Our official photographer was Hariz Yusuf.  I don't think he updates his blog anymore so most of his masterpieces can be viewed here.  More photos can be viewed on my Facebook page, if you can find it ;)

We're not as romantic.  Strictly for photo shoot only :p

November 17th, 2012

Early in the morning, my husband & I were all set & ready to go for our post-wedding photo shoot at Setia City Mall's park as arranged with our photographer.  We were lucky enough to finish the shooting early since at the tip ending of it, the rain started to fall.  Aggressive by seconds!  So we continued some of the shoots inside the mall instead.

Uuu so both of us are so fair, pfft :p

During the rain.

Back home some time in the afternoon, I had to start packing for a few days stay at my in-law's house in Meru since we'll be having another two receptions there later that night and the day after.  Boy I was really nervous.  Regardless of that, I managed to went through things and we were also celebrated lively.  Had to sing hubby a birthday song that night since it was his birthday -___-"  Malu gila wa cakap sama lu amendeee tiba-tiba nyanyi kat public.  My lovely boy turned 28 that day!  No official photos were taken on the 18th, lagipun simple simple sangat majlisnya just to celebrate neighbors, friends, and relatives in a simple ceremony.  I wasn't even wearing proper wedding attire, veil pun malas pakai.  Hehe.

So fugly  T_T  Happy birthday husband!

~ ~  Ouuukay, those were all about my special days I think.  See ya next time!  ~ ~

So far so good .

Assalamualaikum w.b.t. to each and everyone of you who's nice and kind enough to drop by this humble, stranded blog of mine.

I humbly seek apologies from any of my readers (if there's any) for hibernating for so long.  I would say I'm doing Subhanallah and Alhamdulillah perfectly fine all this while despite being tested with several unfortunate events in which I sincerely believe were His blessings upon me to cleanse my sins and wrongdoings (kafarah dosa).

Long story short, here is the chronology of some of my life important events just for simple update :)


February 10th, 2012

I got engaged to the answer of my prayers, Yusry bin Samsuri.  He was 28 and I was only 21, I would say seven years apart is not that much of a gap for us.  It's either I'm too matured for my age, or he's rather childish :p  No lively ceremony whatsoever.  It was simple.  It was short.  Still meaningful.  Only eight (if I'm not mistaken) of his family members came, he was NOT one of them.  Yes, we're old school liddat~~  We didn't make the engagement known to the whole world except for families and close friends. 

More like a discussion  ^.^

July 15th, 2012

This was the date that marked one of the most significant change in my life.  This was the date of my last final examination paper as a Bachelors Degree student in UiTM Terengganu, Dungun.  The memory was as fresh as if it occurred only yesterday.  How I excitedly packed after my three hours Management of Change paper which ended at 12 p.m. to rush driving back home in Shah Alam, while my parents and three of my younger siblings await since the night before.  They came to help me pack as well as to ensure that I will not be driving alone for the almost 5 hours journey.  The feeling was unclear and somewhat mixed between excitedness, happy, anxiety, scared, troubled, etc. etc. toward what awaited me in less than four months after that. 

Final research.

July 28th & 29th, 2012

Attended 'Kursus Kahwin' at Jabatan Agama Islam Selangor (JAIS) with my fiance, who's my husband today of course  :)  It was kind of a bore, somewhat exhausting; putting us in sleepy mode during some of the talks for it was Ramadhan (excuses :p) and also due to the failure of one or two of the speakers to gain our attentions.  Nevertheless, we gained many valuable information.  We were also given little treats for our Iftar, how nice.

Goodie bag with some useful books and pamphlets we received.

August 3rd, 2012

On that blissful Friday, UiTM degree students finally got back their final examination results.  I posted mine few posts back and honestly, I gratefully admit that I couldn't and shouldn't ask for more.  I passed with flying colors; all of which would not became a reality without the support from my parents, family, fiance, lecturers, friends, etc. etc.

Some information must be kept confidential, no?  :p

~ ~ Can't recall everything that has occurred last year.  But I don't think I missed anything crucial.  Oh well, will proceed.  In the next entry, hehe.  ~ ~

Pegangan.

(THIS IS A RE-POST FROM YEAR 2010, mind you)


I have a principle.
To never cheat in a quiz, test or examination.

It's a lie if I say that I never cheat.
It was quite like a common thing to do when the examination's in during my high school days.
Even the smartest kid in the class cheated, so why not me?


Nevertheless,
I didn't realize when did I start holding on to this principle.
Maybe as soon after I entered university?

Well, campus life is a whole lot different from the school days.
The courses got tougher, but still, I don't want to cheat.



In my context, cheating includes passing notes, asking a friend beside you, copying from a note, write down the answers beforehand on the table, text a friend during the quiz / test / exam, hide notes in the toilet and etc.

Others?  Well you name it.  I'm sure most of you are well-aware of it right?

What disturbs me the most is the fact that even top scorers tend to cheat and copy from their friends.
So what's the value of his / her 'top scorer' title?

Again, it's a lie if I tell that I never get any spot questions for the quiz / test / exam.
Yes I got it once in awhile.  But I still put my whole effort to concentrate on them before the exam, not by copying the entire details from the handouts or text book!


Honestly, I'm always stress before, during and even after the quiz / test / exam.
But I never use that as an excuse for me to cheat.
I held on to my parents' advice which sounds something like this,

"It's normal if you can't answer sometimes.  You can't expect to score everytime"

Pardon me dear friends as I know most of you did it.
I'm not a saint nor an angel.
I'm just here to stand my point.

Where's the value of your high marks if you know that you got that based on fraud and cheating?
Maybe some of you doesn't even care, right?
Well yeah what matters the most is you pass isn't it?

Heh, pity pity.  You may see it as a tiny weeny matter but believe me, Allah sees everything.
Those matters we tend to overlook are usually what actually contributes to our sin.

Doesn't this affect you in any way?

 

Well if it doesn't have any effects on you, you don't have a heart then.

Make a change.
Your life, your choice.
Why continue living in a life full of lies?



Now, don't make me start on plagiarism.
Oh and all the best for your finals UiTM students!  :)  No cheating this time.



Ps.  Got into an accident recently.  I accidentally bumped into a motorcycle.  Myvi's front bumper is severely damaged!

Gila .

 
Gila apa last published post September 11th?!  Bahaya tu, propa Yahudi tuuuu. 

Puii.

Banyak sangat dah jadi dalam 4 bulan ni. 

Ada masa cerita.

Puii lagi.



 

Yeay, kahwin!

  

Wah, lamanya tak menulis kat sini.  Sebulan lebih dah.  Tiba-tiba nak kahwin.  Kah kah kah.

Alhamdulillah walaupun lambat benor progress preparation pernikahan daku itewww nanti tapi dapat juga selesaikan perlahan-lahan.

Chantek, pejabat agama Klang dengan daerah Petaling dah bagi green light.  Jom kahwin bang!  Haha.  Gelenya!

Kiri Klang bagi, Kanan Petaling bagi.

Kena mula fikir cara menggemukkan beliau ini.  Hoho.  Moga semuanya dipermudahkan, risau ni takda satu apa pun persiapan.  Badan pun makin naik ada la T_T

Dinner lontong yang romantis.  Ngeh.  Abam kacak marah lettew kitew taruk gambar ni.

InsyaAllah, aamiin.

 

When you just can't be selfish anymore,

 

What if things proceed the way they are?  What's going to happen to me?  My dreams?  My hopes?  My future career?  My life?  My everything?  Will the November milestone do me any good?  :')

Allah is always fair, no doubt.

 

TAMMAT.

Ejaan zaman P.  Ramlee sikit  :)

Alhamdulillah.  Ok, boleh kahwin.  Haha.

Subjek A+ je boleh tunjuk.  Ngeh ngeh ngeh.  Tamat sudah :)

4 tahun oi belajar Diploma + Degree berdebar je sebab Diploma tu tak grad so kalau tak pass Degree ni I got nothing!  Syukur segalanya dipermudah.

Ps.  Sekarang mari doakan konvo kami tak ganggu rancangan bulan November saya.  Terima kasih

Babies, babies everywhere .

Looks like yet again this blog has been cruelly sent to hibernation mode.  Been busy.  This is completely common in life.  When you got so much to tell, so many things to share, yet you're not blessed with the adequate amount of time to do so.  In contrary, when you are all cozy in your sofas and clean tables, your mind tend to go all blank.  Cursing you for wasting time in front of the laptop.  Malicious, yet that's how our life tend to work most of the time.

I'm currently at home, spending my precious Ramadhan month with thy family and mostly nephews.  Just a quick update.  This year only, we've been blessed with 4 macho little angels (alhamdulillah) which contributed to 5 boys and 3 girls of my parents' grandchildren collection.  And as I speak (or type, whatever), I am currently rocking one of them (Thaqif) in his cradle.  This big kid is my brother's son.  Lookie lookie how big he is!  ;)

Muhammad Ali Thaqif bin Muhammad Fikri.

Aaaaaaannddddd he's only 5 months old!  He weighs up till 9.3 kg already!  Haha.  Explains my asthma attack most of the time :p  Even so, he is a joy to be around.  Funny kid, he is.  Love the comfortableness when holding and hugging him, I feel waaaarmmmm.  Haha.  

The next picture is to show the comparison between Thaqif and Al-Fatih Fakhri (another brother's son) which was also born this year, in the month of June (can't recall the precise date).

Happy funny kid with the second boy in line, Muhammad Al-Fatih Fakhri bin Muhammad Fadhli (gosh, this kid's name is long -___-")

Another two are my brother's and sister's sons, Fairuz and Hanis.  Oh by the way, all of the photos are courtesy of my family's Facebook.  I'm getting lazier each day to snap pictures myself.  Hehe.

Muhammad Adam bin Muhammad Fairuz.

I fell in love with this one kid.  He is the most charming baby I've ever seen especially when he opens his eyes!  He got long, pointy chin and shining big pair of eyes.  Argh, couldn't really explain.  Come and visit him for yourselves ;p

Last but not least, this one little hero first saw the world on last Tuesday, July 31st, 2012.  My sister's second baby.  He is a lot smaller compared to the picture :)

Muhammad Anas bin Muhammad Zul Azmi.

And here's 7 of them kids since this was edited before Anas was born.  

See see that sweet Adam above Abang Aiman :)

I'm one happy aunt !   :)  

Kangawoooo.

 

Second Giveaway by Sazalina :)

 

Please please please random number generator pick me this time.  I want to win this second giveawaaaaay!  :D

Ps.  Esok final paper yeay!

 

Demam!

  

Ngahahah, demam exam la sangat.  Study sikit, lepak banyak.

My towel rack is also my desk!  ^^

Bagus anak dara, sungguh study sampai tak sempat makan.  Pfft

Paper orang lain rasanya dah start hari ni.

All the best kepada yang terlibat dalam menjayakan peperiksaan akhir UiTM semester ini, hihi. 

  

 

Ilmu bukan pada pointer. No? :)

 
I know where I stand and I know my capabilities.
I don't need to cheat during quizzes, tests, and finals.
You still think you're worth the awards?  Well, I don't.


Some people just wouldn't care of the fact that what they do now will definitely affect their future.
Maybe not in this world, but the hereafter.
So go on, be proud of your 'achievements'.



 

English .

 
 
OH their English~!  Feels like screaming at top of my lungs at 3 in the morning.  Bulls.  Simply and obviously technocrat fools.  Learn before you act so big.

Grammar .

  

I'll be frank with you.  I mean you, well anyone of my readers.

I'm not that good in English.  But I like the language.  I really do.  I prefer to speak to myself using the second language whenever I'm alone.  I pretend to express myself more and better that way.  And only my fiance truly understands that each time I'm freaking pissed off with something, I'll use English. 

English is fun.  However, grammar is not really on the same boat for me.  Despite the fact that grammar can be a curse sometimes whenever I'm writing (especially when I thought I used the correct one then the so-damn-intelligent Word underlines it green when I KNOW I HAVE USED IT CORRECTLY curse you Microsoft Word !), I am delighted to take some time to really understands and applies it in my everyday life. 

Learning English is an everyday process.  Oh no, LEARNING is our daily process.  I usually take time to read any English materials everyday.  Just for the fun of it.  Along with the purpose to increase and improve my vocabulary and word structures.  Call me a snob but I am very particular when it comes to the use of proper English even in assignments report writing.  However, it saddens me a bit that I seldom have the time to recheck and proofread most of my group assignments report nowadays.  When I go through the reports after submission I feel like cryingggg ~~ :'(  

Well, whatever it is, we should always open up rooms for improvements especially when it comes to the use of English.   Don't act as if we know everything and would not take any critics and suggestions for answers.  Hey, I can proudly tell you I scored well for my MUET but it doesn't mean I should stop learning and forbid anyone from telling me I used the improper words and incorrect grammar.  Those I loathe the most are people who would not admit their mistakes and correct them.  They will definitely repeat the same mistakes all over again but still, they are the ones who will be complaining one day when some employers wouldn't employ them because of their low English proficiency.  By that time, I wouldn't be there to say "I'VE TOLD YOU!"  Hihi.

Have great days ahead people!

  

 

Lose Weight !

  

Ya Allah!  Siapakah gadis kurus pada suatu masa dahulu ni?!  Ohhhhhh, kenangan silaaaammm~  T_T

Dinner semester 1 diploma .

 

No ?

What's the use of acting all angelic liddat on Facebook but not on any other social networking sites such as TWITTER?  You can make your profile or tweets or whatever those shits are called private but you can never hide the truth behind that extravagantly fake innocent expressions of yours.

Anddddddd . . . I know you guys will be reading this, so yeah :)  Bulls .

 

The non-existent .

What's the use of explaining yourself to someone who wouldn't listen and always want to win?  I rest my case dear friend  :)

 

Of Engagements, Weddings & Trends .

 
Siapa cakap tunang dan kahwin awal tu sebagai satu trend, dan dia pun menggeletik macam cacing kepanasan nak cepat-cepat tunang kepoh satu dunia dengan cara yang gedik memang nak kena tumbuk.  Nuff said

  

Ps.  Just wait till you go through the hardships.  Trend your head!

 

 

Jujur .

Jujur aku belum bersedia untuk melangkah ke alam perkahwinan.

Banyak mazmumah dari mahmudah nya diri aku ni.

Sering aku berkira-kira mahu kah untuk teruskan.

Atau biarkan hubungan kami terus begini.

Biarpun peramah aku tahu aku seorang yang pemarah.

Cepat melenting orang sekeliling pun pening.

Menerima sindiran bukan sesuatu yang mudah.

Mula lah senyuman pun jadi kering.

Tak tahu nasihat siapa dan dari segi apa yang aku perlukan.  Aku sendiri sedar kalau sikap ni berterusan rumahtangga yang bakal aku bina dengan yang tersayang akan mudah goyah.  Cuma aku percaya aku berhak untuk berperasaan tidak puas hati terhadap sesetangah perkara yang mereka aturkan.  Perkara yang mudah banyak jadi payah.  

Aku berperang dengan diri sendiri.  Konflik dan keadaan aku, sedikit sebanyak mengganggu emosi aku.  Perkara ni seakan jadi beban untuk aku bahagikan masa antara elemen-elemen penentu masa depan; pelajaran dan tanggungjawab sebagai seorang isteri.  Menipu seandainya aku katakan yang aku yakin aku betul-betul mampu.

Dan aku tak mahu mula dari segi pengetahuan agama dan pemakaianku.  Ya Allah, berikanlah aku petunjukMu.


Ps.  Aku tak hadap duit orang yang rasa bagus dan tak reti hormat orang lain.  Thanks, but no . .  no thanks ! (serius takda kaitan)

Guestbook Giveawaaaay !

Demam demam demam demam demam demam apa ni konon sibuk persiapan barangkali?  Ngehhh.  Excited lebih.  Kerja tak buat.  Assignment tak siap.  Buku tak baca.  Questionnaire tak distribute.  Tak sedar diri lagi ni budak final sem ni.



Ahhh, dulik!  Comel sangat ni guestbook atas ni ni.  Siapa tak nak menang ni.  Boleh tengok semua hasil kerja kat SINI ni. 



Bismillahirrahmanirrahim :)
OK, baru boleh hantar.  Maaaaaauuuuu.

Dia . 5

   
Hari ni ulangtahun kelahiran dia yang aku rindui.
Sudah 27 tahun.  Semoga hidupnya sentiasa diberkati.
Walaupun jauh dari kami.
Aku yakin, Allah sahaja yang mengerti.
Segala percaturan ini.


Selamat ulangtahun kelahiran dia yang aku rindu.
Aku cuba kuat selalu tapi air mata deras bila teringatkanmu.
Sungguh aku berdoa, suatu hari kita dapat bertemu.


Ya Allah, aku betul-betul rindu.