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November 10th, 2012

Beautifully arranged, we chose 10.11.12 to finally get married, exactly nine months after our engagement in February.  The plans were made with the consent of both families of course.  Actually, we laid out our future life plan draft long beforehand, even at the beginning phase of our friendship as jokes which in the end, most of them were made true by Him the Almighty :')  I'll save our love story for another entry insyaAllah.  Our akad nikah ceremony went smooth and I was officially Yusry's wife on that day with two lafaz.  I'd dare say our reception was very simple.  However, I must seek forgiveness from some of my friends who came on that day and didn't receive quite a courteous hospitality.  Thanks tho to everyone who came  :)

I'm blessed  :)

The akad nikah and reception of my side were held on the same day at my parents' lovely cozy home in Topaz, Shah Alam.  The reception theme was Pinkie Peach, I think?  Haha. 

Tangga rumah jeww.

And oh, we also had our outdoor photo shoot session done at a small park located close to the court.  Our official photographer was Hariz Yusuf.  I don't think he updates his blog anymore so most of his masterpieces can be viewed here.  More photos can be viewed on my Facebook page, if you can find it ;)

We're not as romantic.  Strictly for photo shoot only :p

November 17th, 2012

Early in the morning, my husband & I were all set & ready to go for our post-wedding photo shoot at Setia City Mall's park as arranged with our photographer.  We were lucky enough to finish the shooting early since at the tip ending of it, the rain started to fall.  Aggressive by seconds!  So we continued some of the shoots inside the mall instead.

Uuu so both of us are so fair, pfft :p

During the rain.

Back home some time in the afternoon, I had to start packing for a few days stay at my in-law's house in Meru since we'll be having another two receptions there later that night and the day after.  Boy I was really nervous.  Regardless of that, I managed to went through things and we were also celebrated lively.  Had to sing hubby a birthday song that night since it was his birthday -___-"  Malu gila wa cakap sama lu amendeee tiba-tiba nyanyi kat public.  My lovely boy turned 28 that day!  No official photos were taken on the 18th, lagipun simple simple sangat majlisnya just to celebrate neighbors, friends, and relatives in a simple ceremony.  I wasn't even wearing proper wedding attire, veil pun malas pakai.  Hehe.

So fugly  T_T  Happy birthday husband!

~ ~  Ouuukay, those were all about my special days I think.  See ya next time!  ~ ~

So far so good .

Assalamualaikum w.b.t. to each and everyone of you who's nice and kind enough to drop by this humble, stranded blog of mine.

I humbly seek apologies from any of my readers (if there's any) for hibernating for so long.  I would say I'm doing Subhanallah and Alhamdulillah perfectly fine all this while despite being tested with several unfortunate events in which I sincerely believe were His blessings upon me to cleanse my sins and wrongdoings (kafarah dosa).

Long story short, here is the chronology of some of my life important events just for simple update :)


February 10th, 2012

I got engaged to the answer of my prayers, Yusry bin Samsuri.  He was 28 and I was only 21, I would say seven years apart is not that much of a gap for us.  It's either I'm too matured for my age, or he's rather childish :p  No lively ceremony whatsoever.  It was simple.  It was short.  Still meaningful.  Only eight (if I'm not mistaken) of his family members came, he was NOT one of them.  Yes, we're old school liddat~~  We didn't make the engagement known to the whole world except for families and close friends. 

More like a discussion  ^.^

July 15th, 2012

This was the date that marked one of the most significant change in my life.  This was the date of my last final examination paper as a Bachelors Degree student in UiTM Terengganu, Dungun.  The memory was as fresh as if it occurred only yesterday.  How I excitedly packed after my three hours Management of Change paper which ended at 12 p.m. to rush driving back home in Shah Alam, while my parents and three of my younger siblings await since the night before.  They came to help me pack as well as to ensure that I will not be driving alone for the almost 5 hours journey.  The feeling was unclear and somewhat mixed between excitedness, happy, anxiety, scared, troubled, etc. etc. toward what awaited me in less than four months after that. 

Final research.

July 28th & 29th, 2012

Attended 'Kursus Kahwin' at Jabatan Agama Islam Selangor (JAIS) with my fiance, who's my husband today of course  :)  It was kind of a bore, somewhat exhausting; putting us in sleepy mode during some of the talks for it was Ramadhan (excuses :p) and also due to the failure of one or two of the speakers to gain our attentions.  Nevertheless, we gained many valuable information.  We were also given little treats for our Iftar, how nice.

Goodie bag with some useful books and pamphlets we received.

August 3rd, 2012

On that blissful Friday, UiTM degree students finally got back their final examination results.  I posted mine few posts back and honestly, I gratefully admit that I couldn't and shouldn't ask for more.  I passed with flying colors; all of which would not became a reality without the support from my parents, family, fiance, lecturers, friends, etc. etc.

Some information must be kept confidential, no?  :p

~ ~ Can't recall everything that has occurred last year.  But I don't think I missed anything crucial.  Oh well, will proceed.  In the next entry, hehe.  ~ ~

Yeay, kahwin!

  

Wah, lamanya tak menulis kat sini.  Sebulan lebih dah.  Tiba-tiba nak kahwin.  Kah kah kah.

Alhamdulillah walaupun lambat benor progress preparation pernikahan daku itewww nanti tapi dapat juga selesaikan perlahan-lahan.

Chantek, pejabat agama Klang dengan daerah Petaling dah bagi green light.  Jom kahwin bang!  Haha.  Gelenya!

Kiri Klang bagi, Kanan Petaling bagi.

Kena mula fikir cara menggemukkan beliau ini.  Hoho.  Moga semuanya dipermudahkan, risau ni takda satu apa pun persiapan.  Badan pun makin naik ada la T_T

Dinner lontong yang romantis.  Ngeh.  Abam kacak marah lettew kitew taruk gambar ni.

InsyaAllah, aamiin.

 

TAMMAT.

Ejaan zaman P.  Ramlee sikit  :)

Alhamdulillah.  Ok, boleh kahwin.  Haha.

Subjek A+ je boleh tunjuk.  Ngeh ngeh ngeh.  Tamat sudah :)

4 tahun oi belajar Diploma + Degree berdebar je sebab Diploma tu tak grad so kalau tak pass Degree ni I got nothing!  Syukur segalanya dipermudah.

Ps.  Sekarang mari doakan konvo kami tak ganggu rancangan bulan November saya.  Terima kasih

Demam!

  

Ngahahah, demam exam la sangat.  Study sikit, lepak banyak.

My towel rack is also my desk!  ^^

Bagus anak dara, sungguh study sampai tak sempat makan.  Pfft

Paper orang lain rasanya dah start hari ni.

All the best kepada yang terlibat dalam menjayakan peperiksaan akhir UiTM semester ini, hihi. 

  

 

Grammar .

  

I'll be frank with you.  I mean you, well anyone of my readers.

I'm not that good in English.  But I like the language.  I really do.  I prefer to speak to myself using the second language whenever I'm alone.  I pretend to express myself more and better that way.  And only my fiance truly understands that each time I'm freaking pissed off with something, I'll use English. 

English is fun.  However, grammar is not really on the same boat for me.  Despite the fact that grammar can be a curse sometimes whenever I'm writing (especially when I thought I used the correct one then the so-damn-intelligent Word underlines it green when I KNOW I HAVE USED IT CORRECTLY curse you Microsoft Word !), I am delighted to take some time to really understands and applies it in my everyday life. 

Learning English is an everyday process.  Oh no, LEARNING is our daily process.  I usually take time to read any English materials everyday.  Just for the fun of it.  Along with the purpose to increase and improve my vocabulary and word structures.  Call me a snob but I am very particular when it comes to the use of proper English even in assignments report writing.  However, it saddens me a bit that I seldom have the time to recheck and proofread most of my group assignments report nowadays.  When I go through the reports after submission I feel like cryingggg ~~ :'(  

Well, whatever it is, we should always open up rooms for improvements especially when it comes to the use of English.   Don't act as if we know everything and would not take any critics and suggestions for answers.  Hey, I can proudly tell you I scored well for my MUET but it doesn't mean I should stop learning and forbid anyone from telling me I used the improper words and incorrect grammar.  Those I loathe the most are people who would not admit their mistakes and correct them.  They will definitely repeat the same mistakes all over again but still, they are the ones who will be complaining one day when some employers wouldn't employ them because of their low English proficiency.  By that time, I wouldn't be there to say "I'VE TOLD YOU!"  Hihi.

Have great days ahead people!

  

 

Lose Weight !

  

Ya Allah!  Siapakah gadis kurus pada suatu masa dahulu ni?!  Ohhhhhh, kenangan silaaaammm~  T_T

Dinner semester 1 diploma .

 

The non-existent .

What's the use of explaining yourself to someone who wouldn't listen and always want to win?  I rest my case dear friend  :)

 

Jujur .

Jujur aku belum bersedia untuk melangkah ke alam perkahwinan.

Banyak mazmumah dari mahmudah nya diri aku ni.

Sering aku berkira-kira mahu kah untuk teruskan.

Atau biarkan hubungan kami terus begini.

Biarpun peramah aku tahu aku seorang yang pemarah.

Cepat melenting orang sekeliling pun pening.

Menerima sindiran bukan sesuatu yang mudah.

Mula lah senyuman pun jadi kering.

Tak tahu nasihat siapa dan dari segi apa yang aku perlukan.  Aku sendiri sedar kalau sikap ni berterusan rumahtangga yang bakal aku bina dengan yang tersayang akan mudah goyah.  Cuma aku percaya aku berhak untuk berperasaan tidak puas hati terhadap sesetangah perkara yang mereka aturkan.  Perkara yang mudah banyak jadi payah.  

Aku berperang dengan diri sendiri.  Konflik dan keadaan aku, sedikit sebanyak mengganggu emosi aku.  Perkara ni seakan jadi beban untuk aku bahagikan masa antara elemen-elemen penentu masa depan; pelajaran dan tanggungjawab sebagai seorang isteri.  Menipu seandainya aku katakan yang aku yakin aku betul-betul mampu.

Dan aku tak mahu mula dari segi pengetahuan agama dan pemakaianku.  Ya Allah, berikanlah aku petunjukMu.


Ps.  Aku tak hadap duit orang yang rasa bagus dan tak reti hormat orang lain.  Thanks, but no . .  no thanks ! (serius takda kaitan)

Kualiti?

 

Orang sekarang lebih prefer blog yang tak reti mengeja dan bajet-bajet saja memang motif setakat nak berlawan follower tanpa ada pengisian yang boleh dibuat berfikir dan dikongsi bersama.  Apalah nasib blog berkualiti seperti Mencari Identiti (ok, perasan gila b*b*!) ni?  Entah.

Takpalah.  Janji jangan blog tu mempunyai pengisian berunsur fitnah dan caci-maki.  Setiap penulis ada cerita mereka dan cara meluahkan serta perkongsian yang tersendiri.  Kan?  :)

 Ps.  Aku nak cuba share link blog aku at least sehari sekali lah kat Facebook.  Ok tak?  Pffftt

  

Pashi pashi .

Tekanan masih tak reti pakai pashmina yang panjang dan lebar iteww dengan cantik, kemas, tak menampakkan jelas berwajah bulat, dan menutup dada sepenuhnya.  Sekarang semua bajet-bajet cantik padahal dada tertonjol (eh?  kasarnya . . .) belakang terdedah.  Hmph.  Ada link tutorial menarik tak kawan-kawan?  *mengeluh*


Ps.  Ikan patin masak tempoyak ayah beli kat Kuantan semalam sedap gila.  Oh randomnya   -___-"

Dust Bunnies !

 

BANYAKNYA HABUK!

*tiup tiup*lap-lap*

JUMPA LAGI NANTI!

 

Petanda.

 

Nangis banyak pun tak guna.

Kerja lagi banyak, jangan hilang fokus ya!

Dia dah tak nak, jangan ngada-ngada.

Biarkan saja pergi, kalau itu hendaknya.

Ps.  Mata aku ada kutu babi.  Serius

  

 

Siapakah?

Muka tahan nafas tahan perut harus censored.

   

Gediknyaaaa.  Siapakah?  Ha ha ha

Ps.  Tak payah la nak benci-benci, aku tengah bosan ni.  Ngeh ngeh ngeh

  

 

Ujian .

Eh?

Takda kaitan .

  

 

Lelaki .

 
Kaum yang satu ini kalau sejak azali memang dah gatal mengada dah tentu dengan orang  (BACA:  perempuan) lain pun sama.  Kan?  Tengok saja cara layanan pada kita.  Bodoh, bodoh sendiri senang percaya.

Ps.  Perempuan pun lebih kurang saja.

 

Semalam .

Semalam ulangtahun kelahiran Encik Y saya.
Dia sambut dengan keluarga  5 hari lepas tapi saya tak ada.
Cuma mampu sumbang kek Secret Recipe yang saya tak dapat rasa.
Hanya dapat membayangkan suasana apabila mesej bergambar diterima.

Umur dia 27 ya kawan-kawan.

T_T

Hari itu pula ulangtahun kelahiran saya.
Sambut lewat sebulan bersama keluarga tetapi dapat kek juga.
Kebetulan dia turut serta mengada-ngada rindu katanya lama tak jumpa.

Umur saya 20 ya kawan-kawan.

Makan malam romantik ditemani keluarga ;p

Selamat ulangtahun kelahiran yang ke-27 awak.  Maaf lambat ucapannya, awak pun tahu betapa sibuknya saya.  Semoga dipanjangkan umur dan sentiasa dimurahkan rezeki.  Paling penting sentiasa di bawah lindungan dan mendapat keberkatanNya.  Duit jangan mengada membazir entah ke mana.  Ingat misi yang ada ;D  Mari berusaha memantapkan iman bersama-sama.  Lakukan segalanya dengan penuh keikhlasan terutama apabila bekerja.  InsyaAllah diberi kekuatan untuk sentiasa beribadah.


Err . . . erm . . . lain-lain ucapan dalam telefon saja ;)


Jaga diri ya!

Books. I Love Books

Not sure if most of you are aware of this; I love to read.  I love reading, especially those written in my second language, English.  Not to say that my native language is of no importance to me.  It's just that I found English wonderful & erm, more readable?  Ha ha -_-"  Ok, that's awkward.


English materials usually sound more professional.  More informative.  More straightforward.  Most are easier to digest.  To be understood.  To be learned.  But I can assure you, not all of them.  There are only certain types that meet my likings.  I don't read thick novels usually turned into movies:  Harry Potter & Twilight Saga to name some.  I don't read ghost stories; waste of time.  Should have summon them if I want, in which, I won't!  Eheh.


Some Malay novels written by experienced novelist are good too.  The only problem I have with Malay novels are the choice or use of words.  Maybe it's just not our nature to be so jiwang-jiwang cair-cair tangkap leleh & all that.  Newcomers usually suck in their writing!  Pardon me.  They thought they delivered nice stories that the readers could relate to their lives especially teenagers today when they actually shouldn't.  Such reading materials would only distort readers' thinking.  They're still trapped in the 'safe' zone.  NOT ALL BUT MOST of the characters created in the novels also picture inappropriate morale for us Muslims.  I know you know what I mean.  And now don't make me start on Malay dramas / movies (even though I do watch some of them & regret later *sigh*), as well as their songs.  You'll get the gist by watching these two videos:

Don't you just love this guy? ;D


Ok, my point here is that I just want to share my passion for reading English books / novels.  However, my passion has been hindered by my financial situation.  I spend most on foods, clothes, shawls, foods, aa foods, erm what else, foods.  Yes, mostly on foods!  Shame on me *sob sob*

*yums*  Source:  The Star Online.

My favorite author would be Mitch Albom & Cecelia Ahern!  :)  I haven't read all of their writings but insyaAllah with time & money, I will.  Can't describe the reasons for my favor in them, you should try read their novels.  Magnifico ^^ .  Been reading Ahern's since high school.  Currently reading The Gift by Ahern since, I don't know, a year ago?  Not that it's not interesting.  Time constraint, time!  Eheh :">  Got a new book as a gift from my brother, Fairuz entitled Bookends by Jane Green.  Haven't read any of her works, so I should try when I have the chance.  The semester break perhaps -___-"  *long sighhhhhh*

Got my eyes on these since forever!  T_T  Don't have enough money allocated for them.  Too bad :(

Latest by her.

Not even sure whether
it's distributed in Malaysia.

The title says it all!
I shall buy it tomorrow!  ;p

Romantik ?

 
Tercuit rasa hati.
Baca entri berusia 8 bulan ini.

Senyum.  Manis.

dicuri untuk mencuri buat pelengkap rusuk kiri.

"Bersusun buku,
Bersusun DVD,
yang satu pun tak baca lagi,
yang satu pun tak tengok lagi.

Macam biasa.

Masa aku dicuri lagi demi mencuri hati, seorang puteri.
Buat pengubat hati juga pelengkap rusuk kiri.

Aku janji."

Tidak?  Tak semua 'kan mengerti :)

Curian karya dari sini . 

 

  

 

Bukan .

  

Assalamu'alaikum w.b.t.
Macamana nak mula ya.
Lama benar tak bercerita.
Ada pembaca lagi ke?
Ada yang menunggu ke?
Ada peminat ke?

Hmm . . . Persetan.


Bukan tiada cerita gembira,
Sedih sebak tak payah kira,
Secara telitinya saya mengira,
Sudah 41 hari tiada berita.
 

Esok lusa je lah ye!  :D