Pegangan.

(THIS IS A RE-POST FROM YEAR 2010, mind you)


I have a principle.
To never cheat in a quiz, test or examination.

It's a lie if I say that I never cheat.
It was quite like a common thing to do when the examination's in during my high school days.
Even the smartest kid in the class cheated, so why not me?


Nevertheless,
I didn't realize when did I start holding on to this principle.
Maybe as soon after I entered university?

Well, campus life is a whole lot different from the school days.
The courses got tougher, but still, I don't want to cheat.



In my context, cheating includes passing notes, asking a friend beside you, copying from a note, write down the answers beforehand on the table, text a friend during the quiz / test / exam, hide notes in the toilet and etc.

Others?  Well you name it.  I'm sure most of you are well-aware of it right?

What disturbs me the most is the fact that even top scorers tend to cheat and copy from their friends.
So what's the value of his / her 'top scorer' title?

Again, it's a lie if I tell that I never get any spot questions for the quiz / test / exam.
Yes I got it once in awhile.  But I still put my whole effort to concentrate on them before the exam, not by copying the entire details from the handouts or text book!


Honestly, I'm always stress before, during and even after the quiz / test / exam.
But I never use that as an excuse for me to cheat.
I held on to my parents' advice which sounds something like this,

"It's normal if you can't answer sometimes.  You can't expect to score everytime"

Pardon me dear friends as I know most of you did it.
I'm not a saint nor an angel.
I'm just here to stand my point.

Where's the value of your high marks if you know that you got that based on fraud and cheating?
Maybe some of you doesn't even care, right?
Well yeah what matters the most is you pass isn't it?

Heh, pity pity.  You may see it as a tiny weeny matter but believe me, Allah sees everything.
Those matters we tend to overlook are usually what actually contributes to our sin.

Doesn't this affect you in any way?

 

Well if it doesn't have any effects on you, you don't have a heart then.

Make a change.
Your life, your choice.
Why continue living in a life full of lies?



Now, don't make me start on plagiarism.
Oh and all the best for your finals UiTM students!  :)  No cheating this time.



Ps.  Got into an accident recently.  I accidentally bumped into a motorcycle.  Myvi's front bumper is severely damaged!

Grammar .

  

I'll be frank with you.  I mean you, well anyone of my readers.

I'm not that good in English.  But I like the language.  I really do.  I prefer to speak to myself using the second language whenever I'm alone.  I pretend to express myself more and better that way.  And only my fiance truly understands that each time I'm freaking pissed off with something, I'll use English. 

English is fun.  However, grammar is not really on the same boat for me.  Despite the fact that grammar can be a curse sometimes whenever I'm writing (especially when I thought I used the correct one then the so-damn-intelligent Word underlines it green when I KNOW I HAVE USED IT CORRECTLY curse you Microsoft Word !), I am delighted to take some time to really understands and applies it in my everyday life. 

Learning English is an everyday process.  Oh no, LEARNING is our daily process.  I usually take time to read any English materials everyday.  Just for the fun of it.  Along with the purpose to increase and improve my vocabulary and word structures.  Call me a snob but I am very particular when it comes to the use of proper English even in assignments report writing.  However, it saddens me a bit that I seldom have the time to recheck and proofread most of my group assignments report nowadays.  When I go through the reports after submission I feel like cryingggg ~~ :'(  

Well, whatever it is, we should always open up rooms for improvements especially when it comes to the use of English.   Don't act as if we know everything and would not take any critics and suggestions for answers.  Hey, I can proudly tell you I scored well for my MUET but it doesn't mean I should stop learning and forbid anyone from telling me I used the improper words and incorrect grammar.  Those I loathe the most are people who would not admit their mistakes and correct them.  They will definitely repeat the same mistakes all over again but still, they are the ones who will be complaining one day when some employers wouldn't employ them because of their low English proficiency.  By that time, I wouldn't be there to say "I'VE TOLD YOU!"  Hihi.

Have great days ahead people!

  

 

Spontan ?

 

Perbualan sebenar pada hari Rabu, 14/03/12.  Dialog tidaklah sebijik sebijan tapi seakan-akan.

 

 MUNIRA:  Kenapa muka kau, bibir kau nampak pucat?

DIYANAH:  Entah la.  Kau tak tau ke aku ada simptom penyakit membawa maut?

MUNIRA:  Apa dia?

DIYANAH:  Hidup.  Setiap yang hidup kan mesti mati.

Laju mulut menutur kata.  Bersediakah aku sebenarnya?

  

 

Hijrah .

Lokasi:  Kedai menjual pakaian dan tudung (Cititrend, Plaza Shah Alam)
Tarikh:  22 Ogos 2011 (Isnin)

Situasi:

AKU:  *belek-belek tudung*

- - - - terdengar perbualan - - - -

APEK:  You mau tudung macamana?

MAKCIK:  Yang macam saya pakai ni la.  *tunjuk tudung sarung awning*

APEK:  Ha ok, mau saiz apa?

MAKCIK:  Ala tak tau la, saiz macam ni la saya biasa pakai. *tunjuk tudung sarung awning paras atas dada*

APEK:  Oh itu macam punya ka?  *cari-cari saiz*

MAKCIK:  Erm, saiz S je la S pun boleh.

APEK:  Haiyo, S tak boleh la banyak kecik singkat.

MAKCIK:  *nada berubah seakan malu*  Erm.  Saiz dia macamana ni sebenarnya ikut saiz muka ke apa?

APEK:  Saiz muka sama saja.  Labuh lain.

- - - - berhenti eavesdropping - - - -

AKU:  *senyum berlalu pergi*

Gambar hiasan.  Tapi dia ni memang suka pakai tudung atas dada ek?

Entah kenapa.  Aku rasa cukup segan masa tu.  Terlalu segan.  Aku akui aku jauh sekali daripada baik sepenuhnya akhlak tetapi situasi yang berlaku depan mata itu cukup membuat aku terkesan.  Seorang insan bukan beragama Islam boleh mengenalpasti singkatnya tudung itu jika dipakai oleh wanita itu, mengapa bukan dirinya sendiri?  Ada juga terlintas di fikiran jahatku ini,

"Ya Allah tak sedar dirinya mak cik ni.  Aku pun tak pernah pakai S.  Dah tua-tua bawak la bertaubat pakai tudung labuh"

Kenapa kita cukup susah nak ikut perintah Allah?  Adakah kita jahil atau terlalu mengambil mudah?  Nak bergaya tak salah malahan Allah s.w.t. sukakan kecantikan tetapi . . . mungkin cantik itu disalaherti masyarakat kini. 


Aku sedih dan risau fikirkan bila masanya untuk aku berubah, untuk berhijrah.  Pemikiran, akhlak, budi bahasa, sikap, percakapan, pergaulan, pemakaian.  Dari mana harus aku mula?  Aku keluar rumah dengan tudung paras atas dada, kasihan ayah aku, abang-abang dan adik lelaki.  Kalau dah bersuami?  Begitu juga, dia yang harus menanggung. 


Aku sentiasa berdoa segera diberi kekuatan untuk berubah.  Lebih-lebih lagi mengubah tahap kesabaranku :)

A GUIDE TO PROPER HIJAB FOR LADIES 

Sebagai panduan bersama.  Kita dah tahu, cuma tak mahu.  Kan?

 

Ouch, anyone?

  
Let's do some math today.  Yeay!

Harga rokok:  RM 10 (sekotak) x 1 hari

Jumlah tahunan:  RM 10 x 365 hari = RM 3,650
Tempoh merokok:  RM 3,650 x 5 tahun = RM 18,250

Maka, orang-orang yang merokok WAJIB MENUNAIKAN HAJI DAN UMRAH kerana lebihan harta mereka yang selama ini disia-siakan dan dibakar.

Aiyok, tak tau!

    

Malu . Segan . Rugi

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim.

Ehem.  Permulaan dah baik, well I think I'll just cut to the chase.


Seperti yang semua sedia maklum, umat Islam kini sedang menjalani ibadah puasa di bulan Ramadhan yang mulia ini.  Apa yang cukup menghampakan saya adalah mentaliti, tabiat serta perangai kebanyakan rakan-rakan di laman Facebook saya.  Antara perkara yang terlibat adalah:

• Tabiat menunjuk-nunjuk macam dia seorang pergi Tarawih
• Tidak semena menjadi hipokrit
• Berperangai kebudak-budakan dengan mengadu lapar, letih dsb.
• Mengira jam sehingga waktu berbuka (adik saya darjah 5 pun tak buat)
• Puasa tak sampai seminggu sibuk menghitung Hari Raya
• Tidak sabar menunggu saat perginya Ramadhan
• Keluh kesah berduka cita tak kira masa (ini bulan-bulan lain pun ada)
• Mencarut bagai nak gila tapi tup-tup di pengakhiran mesti nak tulis "aihh, kurang pahala puasa aku" (dah tahu masih cakap merapu)
• Habis juadah berbuka sahur semua nak cerita.  Dulu breakfast, lunch, dinner takda pula?
• Waktu Tarawih sibuk ajak orang jemaah.  Walhal solat fardhu pun akhir-akhir waktu
• Wanita yang seronok tidak perlu berpuasa kerana 'cuti bulanan' ditokok pula dengan kebanggaan boleh makan Maggi dan minum Nescafe di siang hari dengan harapan mendapat respond 'lucu' dan 'prihatin' dari rakan sosial terutama dari golongan kaum Adam (penambahan idea daripada Ain Syazwani, thanks)

+ + + You name the rest


Attitude seperti ini perlu diubah.  Kalau dah sepanjang 11 bulan saya tengok awak berperangai / berpakaian seperti 'apa' di Facebook, jangan tiba-tiba orang tak pergi Tarawih awak mula memaki menyindir bagai.  Mungkin ya, mungkin awak telah berubah ke arah yang lebih baik di bulan yang mulia ini syukur Alhamdulillah jika benar tetapi dalam masa yang sama awak terus-menerus menggunakan bahasa kasar dan mencaci maki di laman sosial berkenaan tu apa cerita pula?  Kalah main game pun habis dicarut-carutkannya.  Malu sendiri.


Rasa nak hide saja semua post seorang rakan di laman itu yang tak habis-habis penuh keluh kesahnya ditambah pula dengan kesedihan melampau kononnya tak dapat menahan lapar persis anak-anak malang di Bosnia Herzegovina.  "Yes, 4 jam je lagi!"  Itu sibuk dikiranya.  Benar bidasan status rakan saya Liyana Othman; "umoq da 21thn posa still dok mngadu lapaq aku xtaw la mak bapak ang ajaq apa slama nih."

Ya, mungkin agak kasar apabila ibu bapa disentuh di situ tetapi saya faham pengertiannya.  Tak pernah terlintas rasa malu kah badan sebesar gajah masih mahu merungut kelaparan di bulan yang sememangnya diwajibkan berpuasa?  Tak dapat dinafikan kadangkala perut ini tewas juga dengan mendendangkan bunyi gendang, rebab, rebana tetapi sangat tak perlu untuk memalukan diri dengan memaklumkan semua.  Malu sendiri.


Saya juga gusar mereka yang sering mencanang ingin pergi atau kepulangan daripada Tarawih berjemaah di masjid atau surau melalui statusnya ada sifat riak, bangga diri dan takabur.   Apa ertinya lagi ibadah yang dilakukan apabila ikhlas diselubungi sifat mazmumah yang disebutkan?  Rugi sendiri.


Kan Ramadhan dituntut dilebihkan amal memandangkan segala ibadah kita pahalanya digandakan.  Memang saya mengaku ibadah saya pun tak banyak mana tapi saya sedar akan hakikat betapa indah, bermanfaat, magis, dan mulianya bulan Ramadhan dan tak sanggup hendak saya menghitung hari untuk meninggalkan.  Ini rata-rata ramai yang lebih 'memandang ke hadapan' sehingga tamatnya tempoh sebulan biar pun amal ibadah ditinggal-tinggalkan.  Rugi sendiri.

Sumber:  emostyles2011.blogspot.com

Maaf andai entri yang saya anggap berbaur teguran disalah erti dan dianggap kasar penulisannya.  Tiada manusia yang sempurna lebih-lebih lagi saya.

Jom, berpuasa dari makan minum, puasa telinga, mata, dan mulut?  ;)  InsyaAllah.

Salam.

Autoplay.

JANGAN LETAK LAGU AUTOPLAY DEKAT BLOG OR BETTER YET, JANGAN LETAK TERUS!  THIS IS BASIC RULE, TAKKAN TAK TAU.  PEOPLE VIEW YOUR BLOG TO READ YOUR ENTRIES, NOT TO DANCE TO THOSE TUNES.  YES, TAK DAPAT DINAFIKAN YANG MAYBE LAGU TU BEST BUT NO THANK YOU I GOT MY OWN PLAYLIST TURNED ON!

Please, no hard feelings.  I'm saying this for your own greater good.  No lie.  No, I'm not only referring to one particular blog but tons of them!  And no, I'm not jealous of you for God's sake.  If your entries are interesting enough, you don't need any songs to 'brighten up' your readers' mood.  So be confident with yourself.  And LEARN TO SPELL, PEOPLE!  Thanks.


Am I being clear enough?

They Care.

Source:  Tumblr.

 

Note to Self.

  

  

Bangun la woi bangun ! 

Jangan syok sangat bercinta !

Jangan rasa terlalu selesa . . .

Cukup banyak kau buat dosa.

Bila lagi nak tambah pahala ?!

Jatuh sehabis baik kau sem ni.

Tolong la jangan malukan diri sendiri.

Bangun la DIYANAH bangun !

 Ingat Allah, ingat Mak dan juga Ayah.

  

 

 

Of good quality & high price .

  
Bila nak beli something of good quality tak semestinya kau kena pergi Topshop, MnG, Forever 21, Timberland, Esprit dan sebagainya.  Kau tak tau entah-entah kedai-kedai tu pun ada je yang reject.


Bila nak sesuatu yang baru & nampak mahal tak semestinya kau kena perhabis ratusan ringgit untuk pakaian yang nampak macam boleh dapat kat bundle dengan harga bawah sepuluh ringgit.


Aku tak kata aku tak pakai branded langsung.  Aku pun tak kata aku suka gila barang murah.
Muka aku bukan senang nak nampak kat bundle pasar malam Khamis bandar Dungun.
Muka aku sangat sukar nak nampak shopping kat Pavilion mahupun KLCC.


Memang la, sebab aku shopping online je.  Eheh :">
Eh tak tak, tak semestinya sebab tu.  Memang aku jarang shopping.

Aku shopping bila perlu.  Perlu di sini bermaksud terutamanya bila baju-baju lama dah terlalu sendat & singkat yang boleh mendatangkan nafsu syahwat (eh?)  lebih-lebih lagi apabila pinggang 30" dah jadi 32", peha ala model dah hilang ketegangan.  Hmmm.

Tambahan pula semenjak dua tiga menjak ni sering ditegur kekasih kacak garang aku, telinga mana tak panas.  Maka, baru lah ada alasan untuk membeli-belah.  Kalau tiada alasan kukuh, si kacak garang lagi keding akan buat suara & wajah tak puas hati.  Hoho.


Senang cerita macam ni la, bila nak beli something tu fikir jauh dulu untuk jangka masa panjang tempoh kau nak pakai, bila sesuai pakai.  Bukan sekali beli fikir untuk satu occassion saja.  Bila sesuatu event yang dirancang tak jadi, mula nak melenting dah spend too much on one piece of 'junk' yang kau rasa kau nak pakai sekali je.  Takmo macam tu eh takmo takmo.  Ok?


Pendek kata, orang kata ukur baju kat badan sendiri.  Aku kata kira lah duit kat buku akaun sendiri.  Jangan sibuk tiru orang bergaya dengan barang nampak mahal sikit kau terkincit nak pergi KL cari yang lebih kurang.  Ada akal fikir.  Entah-entah orang tu beli kat blogshop orang Perlis je harga tak sampai suku ratus.  Haha.  Tak pun dia dapat duit PTPTN satu sem 6 riban ke mana kau tau. 

- - - -
Bila malas nak buat assignment, jangan jadi macam aku.  Pura-pura banyak idea nak tulis kat blog.  Hehe.

- - - -
Aku rasa macam ada orang baca blog aku ni.  So nak khabar la sikit.  Nanti ada nak buat iklan sikit la pasal homestay.  Jadi Marketing Manager dah sekarang ;)  Stay tuned ehhh !  Heh -___-"

Antara Cantik & 'Practicality' . .

Assalamu'alaikum w.b.t & selamat sejahtera.

Di malam Jumaat yang indah ini izinkan saya mencoret sesuatu yang indah buat tatapan para pembaca.


Arghhh, tak boleh tak boleh.  Hipokrit sangat dah tuuu -_____-"
Tapi bagi salam tu betul-betul ha !  Jawab sekarang !


Macam ni je la, straight to the point.  Hari ni ada pasaq malam kat bandar Dungun.  Heh, bandar ka?  Mulut ceq memang jahat sangat tapi bandar apa lagu tu ceq duk sini sejak 2008 takda perubahan dan kemajuan dari segi mental, fizikal & spiritual (eh?) sibuk nak renovate ka besarkan ka luaskan ka apa ka kat jalan raya nun tak siap-siap jugak.  Makin porak-peranda ada la.  Lubang merata-rata.  Buat rosak kereta ja.  Debu toksah ceghita la, ceq peluh basah kuyup basuh kereta pukui 5 petang hari ni esok pukui 8 pagi boleh lukis-lukis dah kat kegheta ceq.  Buat ceq hampa ja.


Tak pa la, ceq bukan nak bincang pasai tu.  Ceq memang tak suka pi tempat ramai orang ni.  Sesaq.  Dengan bau pelbagai toksah ceghita la tapi ceq kena la ceghita jugak.  Saja ja nak bagi nampak betui-betui tak seronok la pi pasaq tu.  Tapi ceq bukan apa, terpaksa.  Sepanjang dah 3 bulan sem ni mula, sekali pun ceq tak jejak lagi ke pasaq Khamis tu.  Tambahan pula, ceq puasa ganti hari ni.  Kang duk loqlaq kat rumah nak buka apa.  Toksah tanya la berapa hari lagi buat malu ceq ja.

Cuba ampa semua tengok satu gambaq ni.

Cantik na buat mata lagu ni?  Dok bubuh eyelaina macam primadona Saloma dulu fuhh memang menggoda.

Tapi dah pasepa kena pakai waktu sibuk duk pilih bundle?

Tapi dah pasepa kena bubuh time ampa nak kira berapa cucuk yong taufu?

Tapi dah pasepa ampa taruk masa muka kena tutup asap sate?

Buat rugi ja.  Ceq tau lani sibuk huha sana huha sini hak individu apa semua.  Hak bersuara, hak beragama, hak memilih, hak mengundi, hak jantina apa semua jenis haktuih la.  Tapi ni kira ceq guna hak bersuara ceq la ni.  Nak habaq mai, huduh ang tau tak?  Kalau la pasaq tu sejuk macam ampa pasang ekon, takpa la.  Ni ampa duk jalan setengah batu dari van kunyit turun nak menapak pi pasaq tu bukan dekat.  Belum sempat pikiaq apa nak beli ang dah sibuk duk lap-lap peluh.  Kalau la eyelaina ampa tu kena ayaq sampai sudah tak luntuq takpa la jugak KUT, sekurang-kurangnya tahan sikit.

Ni baru nak senyum kat adik comel jual apam balik muka ang lagu ni dah:

Kalau la ceq jadi ang, ceq malu dah.  Tak tau la kalau ang rasa takda benda pun walaupun ang nampak macam burung hantu dah.

Lepas ni toksah la duk gatai tangan sangat nak peghabih eyelaina tu buat pi pasaq.  Baik ang simpan buat pakai depan suami ka, kan lagi cun.  Suami pun tak dak dah pi cari lain.

Malas la nak cakap panjang ni pun berjela dah ceq mencarut ni.  Ampa tak suka ampa punya pasai la.  Toksah duk gatai sangat nak baca entri orang sampai habis kalau setakat nak kutuk ja, kutuk dalam hati pun tak boleh.  Takdak hak kebebasan bermonolog kat sini.

Jangan sampai ceq bukak ceghita pasai perempuan gemuk 5 kali ganda lagi dari ceq pi pasaq pakai dress singkat warna putih !  Haaa

Ps.  Tiba-tiba rasa nak tulis gaya orang Utagha.  Pengaruh Luthfi agaknya.  Maaf na orang Utagha, saja ja ni suka-suka

Raya.

Syawal 2009.

 
Another Eid Fitr is coming.

I'm still wondering,
what is the meaning of Syawal?

All I know is that it definitely does not entirely revolves around the joy of collecting duit raya.  Not for me at least
It is such a shame for adults from my age range still have the idea of going to their friends' houses just to boost their duit raya amount.

Apologizing & Forgiving.  That's what Syawal for

We're grown ups, yeah we need money.  But we should at least respect this upcoming month~
It is the perfect time to apologize whole-heartedly & sincerely to each other, pray that we would not repeat the same mistakes ever again & turn over to a new leaf.
But, it does not mean that we shouldn't apologize during the other 11 months!

It is not all about duit raya.

Let's face it, we know that we didn't 'collect' enough 'pahala' during this entire Ramadhan.
So why bother for duit raya?
Shame on us.

Be thankful for whatever has been granted to us.
There are so many unfortunate people out there!
What we have today is way too good from what they could at least imagine.

Think about it.  And that's why we have been granted with great minds

Critical Thinking.

Mengapa masa kecil kita sibuk ingin bertudung, sedaya upaya menutup segala aurat yang ada?
Tetapi apabila usia dimamah masa, tudung bukan kegunaan harian walau sekadar di halaman, sesingkat mungkin dijadikan pakaian, baju bagai tak berlengan?

Lucu apabila aku sering dipertemukan dengan lelaki yang menunggang motosikal di atas jalan raya.  Baju ditiup angin deras tangan mereka menarik semula ke bawah.
Lain pula cerita dengan si hawa, lebih terangkat kan lebih bagus.  Nampak si sotong pun sedikit pun tiada rasa malu, bahaya katanya menunggang sebelah tangan takut mampus.

Bukan mengkritik tak tentu hala, cuma ada niat untuk betulkan diri jua.


- - - - - - - - - -


Aku ada sebab yang kukuh untuk berkahwin segera.  Tak perlu bercinta terlalu lama
Aku takut, aku manusia yang lemah.  Nafsu entah tidak mampu dikawal barangkali
Jangan tertawa, kerana ini perkara yang jangan disia.
Aku jelak melihat pasangan yang terang-terangan berpeluk sakan biarpun di hadapan rakan, berpeluk mesra walau menjadi perhatian, bercumbu di bahu jalan.

Mungkin aku hipokrit, memandangkan aku kini tidak mempunyai sebarang hubungan dengan kaum yang lagi satu.
Tapi tidak bagi aku, memang aku selalu beristighfar agar dijauhkan daripada perkara sebegitu.
Bukan gatal dan miang ingin mendirikan rumah tangga segera, cuma harus beringat syaitan ada di mana-mana.
Sedangkan tok yang berkopiah juga boleh rebah, apakan lagi pula aku yang jarang-jarang beribadah.

Fikirkan . . .

Bonggol Unta

Salam.  
I got this article somewhere in Facebook from somebody else's Note.
The title "Ada hadis rupanya psl sanggul tinggi tu...patut dah jd trend akhir zaman.." really grabbed my attention.

I was alarmed and noted about this matter earlier by Yohanis David because her elder sister, Suria David told her I presume.
Found it really shocking, but somehow I just let the issue pass by without having the effort to do some research as well as having the urge to make some self improvement.

However, after I came across this Note earlier this evening, I felt compelled and feeling responsible to share it with any of my blog's fellow followers.
Let it be a reminder for us woman.  InsyaAllah with strong will, effort & doa, we can all be a better Muslim :)
Take your time to read it, it is never too late to become a better person.



Please note that this article must have been forwarded a couple of times & only God knows whose story this is.

Example:

"It's a trend nowadays that many muslim Malaysian women are into the new hijab wearing i.e. wearing a shawl-like syrian style hijab. I posted on my Fb status recently stating that I too, would want to wear the syrian women hijab style with high bun but unfortunately my hair is short thus cannot tie or do a bun at all.I also received few suggestions to buy fake buns online or at Arzu, KLCC.

I used to study in an arabic-medium school and had learned that when you wear tudung, you're not supposed to show any indication that your hair is long by tying your hair really high/do a bun until men can notice the presence of your long hair eventhough you wear your cover/hijab. That defeats the purpose of wearing a hijab.However, I can't remember the hukum whether it's haram or harus or makruh.

Being curious, I googled about this sanggul arab issue and found the hadith related:

Quote::
“ akan muncul dalam kalangan umatku di akhir zaman, kaum lelaki yang menunggang sambil duduk di atas pelana, lalu mereka turun di depan pintu-pintu masjid. Wanita-wanita mereka( isteri mereka atau anak perempuan), berpakaian tetapi seperti bertelanjang ( nipis&ketat). Di atas kepala mereka pula(wanita) terdapat bonggolan (sanggul atau tocang) seperti bonggol unta yang lemah gemalai. Oleh itu laknatlah mereka semua. Sesungguhnya mereka adalah wanita-wanita yang terlaknat”- hadith riwayat Ahmad, jil.2, ms. 223.

Rasulullah s.a.w bersabda:

Quote::
“dua golongan penghuni neraka yang mana aku sendiri belum pernah melihat keadaan mereka didunia: golongan yang membawa cemeti seperti seekor lembu lalu menggunakannya untuk memukul manusia dan juga kaum wanita yang berpakaian seperti bertelanjang, menggoyangkan badan dan berlenggang-lenggok, kepala mereka ada suatu seperti bonggol di kepala unta yang bergoyang-goyang. Mereka tentu tidak akan memasuki syurga atau mencium baunya sedangkan bau syurga itu dapat dihidu dari jarak perjalanan begitu dan begini”

–hadith riwayat Muslim. Hadith no 212-

I would say that I was tempted at first as I saw some women/celebraties/tv presenters looked really pretty wearing the syrian style hijab with high sanggul/bun. Sometimes, bila nak cantik, manusia selalu lupa pada hukum walaupon dah belajar.I am one of them. Bila nak buat benda jahat, laju je.
Anyway, in wearing hijab,niat perlukah menghalalkan cara? I dare not jatuhkan hukum or say that it is haram wearing the fake sanggul arab.However,at the moment, I'll just forget about buying the sanggul arab thingy."




So my dear Muslimah friends, we all know that Rasulullah s.a.w sudah berpesan, "Sampaikanlah hadithku / ilmu walau sepotong ayat"
Alhamdulillah, I've done my part.

Note to Self:

Note taken. I'm sorry to those who have been offended by me, you know who you are

Ps. Going straight to the market after a tough CTU paper on a rainy day is very very lousy desicision.
Pps. FOUR downs, ONE more to go.

Ramadhan al-Mubarak

Salam.

Esok adalah hari pertama umat Islam akan berpuasa pada bulan yang mulia ini.
Justeru, saya ingin memohon maaf kepada semua yang berkenaan atas segala salah dan silap saya kepada anda.

Bulan Ramadhan ini adalah elok sekiranya kita tutup buku lama dan gantikan dengan lembaran yang baru.
Kepada yang membenci dan rasa terjengkel dengan sikap saya yang tak matang selama ini, saya berharap anda dapat membuang perasaan itu jauh-jauh.
Bila masuk Syawal nanti bencilah semula. Saya tak kisah

Kepada yang tertuduh, terfitnah atau terbuat cerita pasal saya tu tak mengapalah
Saya memang dah biasa. Oleh itu saya sedia memaafkan dan sedar segala kesilapan dan keburukan datangnya dari diri saya sendiri.
Ikhlas saya cakap, memang tak tipu.

Saya cuma ingin segera bergraduasi dan tak mengganggu ketenteraman awam.
Seandainya ada terkasar bahasa, terguris hati eloklah segalanya diterangkan dengan jelas dan bukan terus memburuk-burukkan.

Saya mengaku saya masih tak matang, saya tahu
Sekali lagi, ampunkan saya.

Salam Ramadhan al-Mubarak semua ;)

Patronize

How do you feel when people always, i mean ALWAYS as in ALL THE TIME misinterpret you?

How can they really understand the emotions you're conveying only through Short Messaging System or Instant Messaging or comments on Facebook?

You're just joking around but some people take it seriously.

Haven't they heard of the quote from Joker?

"Why so serious?"

Yeah, I love the line. But I'm scared of the Joker *pardon me*

When they do not understand the terms you're using (my fellow bitches, i know you guys understand what terms i'm talking about), they'll be raging mad and accuse you of talking behind his/her back, mocking him/her and yada yada yada.

I mean, that's stupid right?

There's no harm in asking if you don't understand ANYTHING.

Please do not patronize your opponent. Think of a smart way to win.

How do you feel when people curse you with no good reason whatsoever when they actually don't even know the person you really are?

Got me, I'm a sinner. Of course I do that once in awhile!

I'm a hypocrite, in my very own special way.

And so is everyone!

You know I'm right ;)

Do not curse unless you know the limits.

Do not curse unless you're prepared to face the consequences.

Do not curse unless you know what and who you are dealing with.

Or better yet, DO NOT CURSE AT ALL!

Some people know I'm good at cursing. I mean, REAL GOOD!

They also know I'm good at hurting people's feeling.

Do you know why?

Because people, and lots and lots of people always hurt me.

Physically and mentally, no lie.

I learnt from the experiences I've been through. I learnt from THEM, those who would LOVE and kill each other to see me trip and fall *kapish*

How do you feel when you're in a very good mood but suddenly people accuse you of being too emotional?

Seriously, you are doing nothing. Maybe the tone of your voice are a bit high but that's no good reason for someone to say you're always angry about everything! *sheesh*

Those lame people, they got my sympathy :)

If it's up to me, I'll curse the person right back and do everything in my power to embarrass him/her. Trust me!

But no, I don't do that.

Do you know why?

Because I'm already much hated. Thank you very much.

So don't provoke me with your silly and petty-trying-hard attitude.

You may never know what kind of beast you might unleash from inside of me.

Be prepared.

Be very prepared.

How You Love Me Now

So it's 12:53 am. Freaking tired. Today was a very exciting plus tiring plus lonely plus 'miserable at best' plus unfortunate day ever for me. Ask me why please. It's okay, I'll still tell. Just got back to the room around 11 something. Yeah, at night. I am sorry Mum if you're reading this, I know how much you hate it when I go out until late at night, but still, I was just going out for some recreation since it has been forever since I last do sports. I missed my younger brothers & sister so much & I feel very lonely every time I reminiscence the time when I'm at home during the holidays, how eager Fahmi the youngest was asking me to play some badminton with him. So I took the advantage of tomorrow's holiday by playing some badminton & squash in a hall at the stadium.

Honestly, that was the first time ever I've been in there even though I've already been staying at this dungeon for more than a year. It was fun, sprained the ankle a little bit. Feeling sore here & there but still, I had a great time; went there with the roommate Fatin Dalila & met up with some boyfriends.

Because girls are supposedly to be shy around boys, so yeah I was too. Play just a game or two for the badminton since the hall was dominated by boys. Oh and of course some of them are superb hot too! :) Oh well, just scratch that.

Earlier this evening, I failed to step on a stair & fell over. And guess what? I got this huge bruise on my left knee! It hurts so much & make it difficult for me to pray & accomplish & complete my daily routines.

_________

If there are actually any readers for the blog, I'm very thankful & can you at least give your opinions on my little perception towards the huge human race called male? It'll be much appreciated. It's okay enough if you already took your time to read this long post.

To Aisyah Rozi, please note that I'm not writing this in continuation of your post, to plagiarize your topic or anything. This is something that has just occurred to someone I know very well.

It may be me, or even you!

So here it goes.
How can guys be 'in love' with more than one girl in a moment? Yeah I know girls tend to have over passionate feelings like that too but the term 'PLAYBOY' is much more commonly used than the playgirl. Men are sweet talkers, correct? They can say all these charming words towards a girl but the next thing you know, he'll be sleeping in bed with other girl. They just have this kinda soft tongue & just know the right words to say, the right lies to convey. I tell you, it's very rare for young adult men to be so sensitive & caring & sensible & loyal towards a girl nowadays. Oh well I know it's the same goes to the girls too.

How do you feel when the guy who showed his very deep interest in you this morning; calling you dear, hold your hand, display a very sweet smile that may raise you up into the sky & those & that, but later that very evening you found out that he's doing & saying the same to another girl? I've been through that I tell you. NO LIE.

What is that for actually? To show how 'macho' he is, if he can get as many babes as he wants? To show how girls are easily falling in & out of love? Let me tell you something guys, love is not something that you can make a fool out of. Why should you play the innocent girls' feelings with all those crappy disgusting as-if-they-are-sweet words?! No doubt men are better off as the meanest creature on earth more than women.

Please don't disregard me as a sexist. Because of course, I'm not. I'm mad. Seriously, I'm feeling that certain men still think women are 'something' that they can play with. Something that will not last for long. You make this girl feel very special & unique. But have you ever think what will happen when one day the secret you've been hiding from everyone eventually burst out? Even if you have FOUR lovely babes you've secured with your words & smile but not with your heart, you will of course lose all of them as time passes by.

Don't go round telling your friends that you're in pursuit of this girl or that girl. Don't repeat it to her how cute you think she is or stuffs like that, which can make the girl feel very much appreciated & loved, if you are not actually interested in her. That will only crash all her hopes & dreams IF she IS interested in you too.

Guys. Oh, or is it just one of your way to find the perfect match for you? Who's the nice one, who's the bitchiest, who's the smartest or who's the dumbest to fell into your trap? Is that just it?! A stupid game you guys created? Well it's not fun at all. You'll be building this huge mountain of hope for the girls but the next thing YOU & EVERYONE know you were just fooling around just to fill your past time.

I just feel a little emotional tonight/morning. It could have been because I woke up around 6 something in the morning & still hasn't get any sleep or even nap throughout the day. But as I speak/type, I am sure I am not crappy or drunk or high on drugs.

Please guys, I dare begging you & even kneel down in front of you. Just don't say you like more than one girl & flirt with each & everyone of them everyday & every minute through SMS but you have no intention whatsoever to have a serious or steady relationship. There's nothing wrong if you just confess your passionate feelings to the girl that you like or perhaps even love her!

There's this one thing about girls; they really hate being made as 'toys'. Because when they knew, they'll come & haunt you no lie no lie since revenge is as sweet as honey bee. This is something I wrote based on experience.

Call me a conservative but I still think most girls love to be loved & declaring a serious relationship is very important. Dishonesty is something to loathe! I'm sick of you. I'm sick of your act of concern towards me. I'm sick of your lies when you say you gave no hope to any of your girlfriends. You're super duper dumb if you think I will never manage to know what's in your mind! What's behind that charming smile! What's undercover the flirting eyes! You never know about me. Please, if I'm a friend, you should treat me as one, but not as the 4th girl of your dream! Now you guys know *sigh*

++ Thanks dear brother for pointing out that girls always get the wrong impression when guys are just trying to be nice :) It's true indeed. But there are certain limits that guys should obey.

Tolong Sedar Diri

Siapa yang belum habis ganti puasa Ramadhan tahun lepas itu tolong ganti cepat ye.
Ni dah dalam bulan Rejab dah ni.

Kalau yang perempuan nanti dengan tuan sewa rumah mintak duit bulanan lagi.
Tup tup Ramadhan dah tiba. Haa tak pasal pasal fidyah kang



Sedar-sedar diri tu sikit.
Dah tua ni banyak-banyakkan amal ibadah!








OK, aku poyo. Aku ada 3 setengah hari lagi ni -____-"




Yes, tepat sekali. Aku sedang berpuasa.
Aku sedang lapar tapi chill, aku kuat!





Tengah puasa. Sebab tu emo sikit




Apa?! EMO?




Yes, tepat sekali. Aku emo.
Ramai yang turut berkata begitu.


Tapi apa? Oh tidak, tidak sama sekali.
Aku tidak menafikan.







Pengajaran cerita ini, ganti puasa secepat mungkin

Clap To This

Congratulations to the newlyweds, Salahuddin a.k.a Abang Adin & Noorfaradzila a.k.a Kak Fara :)
May the both of you live happily ever after (no no, it's not only in fairy tales if you really believe in it) & always cherish your significant other every moment.
I'll pray for your happiness, wealthiness & good health along with the hope to see the 'seed' of your love soon ;)
Take care.


To Pak Uda's family, thanks for being so cool & sorry I didn't really help a lot.
To Shairah Sharif, thanks for always standing by my side whenever I need you, whenever people scold us for no good reason & even whenever we got blamed for the stuffs that we didn't even do, you're the best!
I may be tired but the hours we worked together sure makes me excited & happy.


I am currently in pursue to find a guy who's REALLY good with kids & kids love & respect him.
Any takers?
But if you don't have the face of Lee Min Ho, you know where the exit door is ;)


Can't wait to get married & get so many presents! HAHA


I want to figure out how to throw a wedding reception without any fuss or without anyone who wants all the credits for the works which he/she doesn't even do or without anyone talks bad behind my back saying how ridiculous my wedding planning is or without anyone complains about almost everything!
Any suggestions? ;D

Till then, live life to the fullest & appreciate everything your parents have ever done for you.
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY to all Dads in the world!

I love you Uncle Md Yunus Md Said :')